To guys who give halaqahs,
Mashallah you are talented! It takes guts to get the courage to stand above the crowds and speak of Allah, Muhammad (sws) and thing we should be doing. Thank you soooo much for your efforts, May Allah bless you and may your words lead you to jannah.
But there is just one thing…
This is something that every person should work on but the only reason why I’m mentioning it to you is because you are looked upon in the community and you set an example for the youth.
We need to all try to do as we say and say as we do. And only speak of what we do ourselves or at least trying to do sincerely. It would be crazy for me to tell people to be healthy, not to lie, be nice and I’m a big giant fast food eating liar that no wants to be around, right? So when you speak of hijab and talk about all the halal and haram, and you call the girl who is actually doing this ugly or criticize the way she dresses, don’t you think that Is just a little wrong? When you give speeches of how “beautiful” women are by being themselves and how make-up is haram and you marry the girl with the most make-up, don’t you think that is just a little wrong? When you tell the youth that all factors are important but deen is the most important and you bash the girl trying to stay on the deen, don’t you think that is just a little wrong? When you say so much but do little as you say, don’t you think that is a little hypocritical?
I am not trying to bash you but I am telling you because I love you and the works tat you so. I also have a solution!…
Rather than speaking of hijab talk about other issues that are also very pressing in the community and leave the hijab topics to the women, they can handle it, trust me. Plus it sucks as a girl who tries to do exactly what you say which is mostly true and she is treated different then the girl doing the exact opposite.
No one is perfect and women are the biggest test for men, it’s hard, I get it but make it easy on yourselves in order to avoid the greatest sin of hypocrisy.
Drop the topic.
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